Sara's Circle

Hi Dhian, 2018- “Berusahalah menjadi orang yang tepat, bukan orang yang sempurna. Sebab tepat berarti terbaik sementara sempurna belum tentu” – Kak Alwa, Entrepreneur Bercerita sedikit tentang kisah pribadi saya. Well, saya mulai mencintai membaca buku motivasi ketika remaja. Kala itu ayah menghadiahkan buku Chairul Tanjung Si Anak Singkong, ketika saya ngambek. Giving a gift adalah cara ter-sweet-nya ayah untuk membujuk anak gadisnya ini. kala itu saya mulai move mengganti pilihan buku bacaan ke buku fiksi yang lebih tepat dibanding koleksi novel2 remaja saya. Kala itu, saya sudah mulai berfikir untuk terus mengonsep hidup. Lewat buku genius learning education, saya pun mulai memetakan diri saya mau jadi apa ditahun ini, saya harus melakukan apa, 5 tahun kedepan kira-kira bagusnya gimana yaa? Tibalah ditiap penghujung tahun, ritual yang tak pernah saya lewatkan “menulis resolusi”. Ini salah satu cara saya memetakan hidup. Terkenal statis memang, tapi itu cukup membantu saya menentukan

We talk to ourselves too often, looking for something inside us. So that we see ourselves as a complete human being. not half a human being anymore who must be complete. We are in the stage of wanting to meet a complete human being like us. So that we can face the world together not to complement each other anymore.  In Islam, we recognize something equal called "sekufu". everyone has their own criteria and there is nothing wrong with it. It is important to feel complete so that we don't try to find perfection in someone. We will be stupid for loving someone. yet that doesn't mean forever stupid. You deserve a man who gives the best part of himself. If you meet someone effortless, tell him: I still like you, but I left you. The feeling is still there but the effort is no longer there. Remember one thing, we have the power to leave.  Let's dare to leave the untitled story, the story that doesn't even put us as any character. Let's dare to leave with a littl